Where do babies come from?
One of the things with this international adoption lark - the actual process, rather than the raising-of-beloved-monsters comes afterward - is that an awful lot always seems to depend on luck. Where do babies come from? They come from all over - America, Vietnam, China - and the rules governing the transaction (because, among many other things, it is a transaction) are never exactly fixed. SARS can break out (did for us while waiting for Daughter). Rules can suddenly change. Trade shows can make certain cities practically off limits for non-businesspeople (as happened during our trip to meet son ((son!)), leaving us in Foshan rather than Guangzhou).
One often feels at the whim… [more]









